Today the world is
looking more uneasy than ever. In
people’s lives there is more disruption than ever before, as those who were
abused and damaged as children are unable to function normally.
They are permanently
unable to pass that blockage when trauma interrupted their young lives and
their innocence was permanently damaged.
They may advance in
bodily years, but their emotional age remains blocked at that time of their
lives when the abuse took place. They
will forever be unable to act in any relationship as an adult in emotional
matters until that blockage is addressed.
Many have sort
treatment when these matters are brought out into the open and discussed by
counsellors for years and years, never getting to the root of the problem.
How can they when
they fail to fully realise that the trauma is logged in the subconscious mind
and can only be addressed by the skilful counselling of a Psychotherapist, who
has been trained to follow this with clinical hypnosis over just a few well
timed and executed sessions.
If untreated, then
those who grow up into adulthood life will have an inner child reflecting when
that abuse took place. A person in their
seventies will still be a child emotionally and can never adopt a response of
adult love and affection towards their partner.
The need is to first
recognise the problem and then to search for a therapist that specialises in
curing inner child problems using hypnosis.
The earlier this is recognised and dealt with, the sooner that soul will
get back their normal life that was scared in childhood.
There are many
reasons for trauma and all of them cut deep into the young soul, branding the
subconscious for a lifetime if untreated.
Left alone, as so many are through ignorance, there can never be in a
meaningful relationship between two people who may love each other, but can
never be in love with each other on an equal level.
This is sad enough,
but it also means that those who still marry and have children of their own
will, being taught behaviour patterns, tend to make their children
dysfunctional in the same way and so patterns of this behaviour continually
increase with more and more of society at all levels being increasingly unable
to cope with the basic daily problems of life.
Where there are
family and relationship problems they need to be discussed. Counsellors today must be aware of these
issues and, if they are not able to deal with them satisfactorily themselves,
they need to be able to recommend therapists who are specially trained to do
so.
Life can be hard
enough these days, but where normal relationships are not able to function for
the greater good of that family, then there must become an awareness of the
basic needs and, by discussing issues and letting in some daylight, a cure can
be achieved within a few months and the saving of a lifetime of misery is
avoided.
Jenny and Michael Ayers
Saturday, 4th June 2016
