So often we
cannot see what is ahead of us and we find that we appear to be dropped from
what we had expected through no fault of our own. It usually catches us in the pit of our
stomachs, when we least expect it.
It is not a
pleasant situation and we feel as though we have done something wrong and we
tend to blame ourselves that it has happened, little realising at this time
that we are the victims of other people’s decisions, which have let us down.
We have to learn
to be rational and to observe the happening in the light of reality and not as
a blind swipe to knock us off balance.
Often with the help of hindsight, we are able to see that we are better
off because it happened and, had we continued blindly on, we would have found
ourselves in less advantaged positions.
When we look back
it is often said that ‘I was blessed that it happened when it did, because I
was saved from a disaster that was lurching round the corner that I was totally
unware of at that time.’
Those of us, who know that we are looked
after by the constant love and dedication of our guides or guardian angels,
know that they would not let us fall and that there was always a reason why we
found ourselves at the sharp end of some happening or other, that we didn’t
like at the time.
It maybe that we are given a lesson to
learn and from it we will strengthen our resolve and understanding of this
progressive life that we find ourselves in here on this earth plane. One thing is certain and that is that we
didn’t get given this life simply to enjoy ourselves!
We are here with a purpose and must try
and live in harmony and make this world a better place than it was before we
came. We are all connected in some way
and those we meet along the way have something to share with us and for us to
share with them.
We are all dependant on the actions of
others to steer us through this life and we need to realise that it is not a
perfect world. Not yet at least and
there are those who will let us down by making decisions, which affect us
without them seeing the consequences of their actions.
The truth is always there, but it
depends on where you are standing when you see it. To some people it is quite different from the
way that others see it, as they are putting their own interests in there and
that will colour what they want to see and how they see it.
In order to understand the purity of the
truth, we need to be able to see it from all angles. That in this world is very difficult to do,
because as we have said it all depends on how you view it. We don’t always want to accept the premises that
rule others.
When we are able
to see in pure honesty and love how a situation really is, then we are using
our mind-sets to full capacity and we have developed a divine approach, which
is normally denied to us as human beings.
We are really
here to learn and experience the emotions and choices, which are offered to us
on this earth plane. At first we will
struggle to cope and understand, but as we mature and accept that there is a
Higher Intelligence above our own, it becomes easier.
There are always
some hard knocks to experience and hard choices to make, but as we develop we
are able to take them more in our stride and not simple call out and blame
someone else, because it is never our fault, is it?
When we are able
to identify with others as to what is the best possible outcome of a situation,
we are able to go forward with a strength and confidence to make the right
choices and to think the matter through before we act.
Sometimes we make
almost instant decisions and it is only later, after it is too late to change
anything, that we realise the hurt and pain our actions have caused
others. Are they being shocked at what
has happened and have they been hit in the pit of their stomach, because we
didn’t choose to think of the consequences of our actions?
It is no use
trying to undo what we did so hastily, as that is always much more
difficult. It is always best to think
everything through first and after a rational balancing of all the facts that
are available to us, we can make our move.
Time is always
available for good counselling and for making a better choice, so why do we not
apply it more often rather than allowing our first interests and emotions to
carry sway? We all know that it makes
sense!
Jenny and Michael Ayers
Monday, 3rd August 2015
